Open Question: Is there like something wrong with me?

Ok so I'm a freshman. It's not like I'm ugly, I'm 5'5, I have brown/black with caramel tones hair, I am pretty pale with weird 3 colored eyes, brown on the inside green in the middle and blue on the edge, they every kinda blend together. I ear a b cup, so i'm a tad on the tiny side, i dress pretty laid back, flannels graphic t's, skinny jeans and converse. I broke up with my last bf, of 7 months, in february back at our ultra tiny middle school. Now that i'm at high school, i stay with my group of people i knew in m.s. So i haven't really gotten the chance to meet more people, everyone stays in there groups! I like one of my best guy friends, but even when i'm obviously flirting with him and he flirts back. Like he playfully teases me by calling me "look through shirt girl" Because i wore a look through tank top a couple times. Still nothing. What's wrong with me?

3 Sep 2010, 5:13 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: How do I save my trees that are dying?

My husband started a yard project before we meet last year, we won't be able to finish it until next year. We have no grass or sprinkler system in our yard and live in the Salt Lake Area of Utah. Its been around 80 degrees and until today I have not watered my trees. One is completely dead and leaf less and on another few the leaves are turning brown. Do I just water while its hot? every fall while its dry? Do I water at the base of the tree or how far out? Also will this do any good? Do i need to dig then water? What else can I do? I think the trees are a willow, a few quakies, and an oak, Please help!

3 Sep 2010, 5:13 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Where can I meet European men in Philadelphia?

Any suggestions for bars, pubs, or clubs would be helpful! Thanks!

3 Sep 2010, 5:11 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Drunk = more approachable?

guys, help... lately i have realised that whenever i meet new guys, they never talk to me. and i can be quite shy and scared of guys. but not very. but after i have been drinking alcohol, more guys seem to approach me. do you that theres a possibility that i am more like "myself" when i'm drunk, and thats why guys dare to talk to me? thanks :)

3 Sep 2010, 5:09 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Does anyone know the name of this song from the show "Meet the Barkers"?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FLQef7Fyzdc the songs starts at 7:25

3 Sep 2010, 5:08 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: How do I get this guy to just leave me alone, and to understand I just want to be friends?

Ok, so, I met this guy 2 nights ago. We went out for dinner. We were kinda set up by a mutual pal. The guy had seen me on our friends Facebook and our pal told him to ask me to go out for dinner. I had nothing else happening that night, so I went. He seemed nice. We had a lot of fun, but after he dropped me off at my dorm he started texting me telling me that I was beautiful and that he really liked me, so on and so forth. I thought he was just trying to sweet talk me. Yesterday, he text me every day! He would not leave me alone. He kept telling me over and over that he really wanted to look me and that he really felt a connection between us. At this point, I'm nothing but creeped out. We had known each other less than 24 hours. Also, last night I asked him to meet up with me so we could talk. I told him I wasnt ready for a relationship, and I just wanted to be friends. He said he wanted us to grow into being more than friends. I told him once again that I just wanted to be friends and he said he promised that we'd take baby steps. Then he basically went on to say that I was the ONE! I do not like this guy! I dont want to be mean, because he is very nice, but I just dont feel that way for him, and I was nice about telling him I was just wanting a FRIENDSHIP last night, but obviously that didnt work. Any suggestions?

3 Sep 2010, 5:07 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Why Do Guys Pick On Girls?

So, every time I meet a guy, it always seems like they pick on me. Now, if I was mean to them first, I could understand why they would be mean back, but I think I'm always very nice when I meet people, and I think I'm a nice person. But, guys always pick on me. Especially in band. The entire low brass who sit behind me pick on me. Most of it's stuff like "Why are so [insert my name here]?" or "Gosh [insert my name here]" and just really immature stuff. Also, there's this one guy who throws paper wads at me during World History and today this guy who I've known since 6th grade stole my water bottle and tried to hide it. Last year guys picked on me...and....I don't know, I'm just confused. Why do you think they do that stuff? Is it just me, or are they just acting like they're in third grade?

3 Sep 2010, 5:06 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: My rabbit keeps trying to get in with my guine pigs, should I let them meet ?

3 Sep 2010, 5:04 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: If he's into me, why is he telling me about a girl he wants to date?

My pal set me up with his buddy, thinking we'd hit it off. He told him that I was looking to date, so he knew right off the bat what he was getting into. He wanted to meet me.From the day I met him, I knew I was interested. I just wasn't sure about him. Surprisingly the next morning he texted me and asked alot of questions, trying to receive to know me. A few days later, I ran into him at the mall and he was stoked to look me, he gave me a hug and we talked for a bit. When I had to go, he pretended to be unhappy and gave me 2 huge hugs. I texted him yesterday and asked him to hang out, just so we could know more about eachother. He agreed and said he'd let me know when he could. This morning he texted me good morning, and asked about how I slept. I thought this was really sweet because he hadnt done it before. When I asked him about his snooze, he told me he had a dream about dating he chick he really liked, and was bummed to wake up. I then told him I had a similar dream, coz I did. He asked who it was about, and I told him it was him. He said AWEH, thats cute :) I then asked him about the girl in his dream, and he explained it was this girl he's had a crush on and wants to make a move. (it was fer sure not me, he told me her name) I said it was cute, and our conversation stopped here, he responded with a :) I am totally crushed, coz we had been getting along and he knew exactly what I wanted. If he was into another girl this whole time, why did he even wanna meet me? Or even why would he text me this morning and be every cute when he was just gunna let me down? Oh and the pal who set us up really thought he was into me, he was just as surprised as me. That makes it even more confusing, coz they're really tight

3 Sep 2010, 5:01 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: do you ever text an ex?

how often do you keep in touch? and do you ever meet up? did they dump you and you wanted to be friends or the other way about thanks xx

3 Sep 2010, 5:01 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: REALLY SMALL QUESTION!!!!...does he like me???..plz answer :))?

ok i'm just gonna list stuff so it's not tht long to read -he calls me beautiful -i have never seen his eyes wandering to another girl -he secretly made two movies of me from his ipod -he shares everything with me (we're best frnds) -he waits outside for me eveyday after school so we can talk cuz we don't have any classes together -he picks me up when he hugs me and he usually hugs me more than once at one meeting -he notices tiny changes in my mood and appearance -ppl think we're complete adore birds lol -he asks and talks about me with ppl i know (not like gossiping and stuff) -he pays cloooosseee attention when i'm telling him about a problem -he offered to punch this guy who was acting like a jerk to me -he offered me his jacket -he offered me money at lunch to buy stuff even though i had money -he once said "i'll sob if you sob" so does he like me or is he just being really really friendly?? ps i've known him for a year and i think he would be a perfect bf

3 Sep 2010, 5:00 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: i feel like i'm slacking as a girlfriend? guys, can you help?

so i've somehow found the perfect boyfriend. it's amazing considering i've always had trouble with guys. today is our third month together, and i know that sounds short, but i'm still amazing at how perfectly everything is going. he calls me every night, we talk for hours on end, he always listens to me, we literally can talk about anything (like we actually talk about everything), he meets me at my locker every day (we are juniors in high school) and spends free period with me, we usually hangout once on weekends (we aren't too clingy we have our possess friends and we make sure we still spend lots of time with them) and he supports me in everything i do. he honestly loves me and i know it. the problem is, i'm not quite sure how good of a girlfriend i am... i send him good morning texts, and i know he loves them, and i'm always nice to him. but i have a dry sense of humor and sometimes i feel like he is bothered by the things i say. i also feel like he would say something if he was, but he hasn't. also, i hate pda. i absolutely hate it. but its not like we don't do "stuff". because we do plenty. he can't complain that i don't "put out" because i do. but i still feel like the relationship always ends up every about me and i want to do more to make him understand just how much i honestly adore him. guys, can you help?

3 Sep 2010, 4:59 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Does she like me? Can I win her back?

There's this girl who I have been friends with for 3 years and then we kissed a few times over the past year. Orginally she liked me loads and did every the chasing but now it's the other way around. It was clear that she liked me loads until she starting seeing this other guy a few months ago however it has not been going well. We have kissed twice when she has been seeing this guy. I told her I liked her but then she said that she didn't look it going anywhere and that she just saw me as a pal but she cares for me. I tried being friends with her for a week after this but I really have developed feelings for her and I can't deal with just being friends. I told her that it would be best that we don't look each other for a while. After two months of no contact we met on a night out and we hugged each other and said that we missed each other. We walked home together holding hands and we sat down a couple of times along the way and I held her in my arms. She stayed at mine but only on the sofa. We didn't kiss or anything. I didn't want the same thing to happen again. I tried texting her a bit but she isnt an eager replyer and doesn't initiate anything. A week later she came round to my home to visit my housemate and we flirted a little bit when she was in the home. What do I do? Does she like me? She is going on holiday tomorrow for a week with her friends. Should I wait until after then before asking her to meet up or something? Thanks

3 Sep 2010, 4:58 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: if u could meet any celeb past or present who wud it b?

I think if i had the chance, i wud meet mj & obama.

3 Sep 2010, 4:57 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: HELP!!!!!..this is quick to read..does this guy like me?

ok i'm just gonna list stuff so it's not tht long to read -he calls me beautiful -i have never seen his eyes wandering to another girl -he secretly made two movies of me from his ipod -he shares everything with me (we're best frnds) -he waits outside for me eveyday after school so we can talk cuz we don't have any classes together -he picks me up when he hugs me and he usually hugs me more than once at one meeting -he notices tiny changes in my mood and appearance -ppl think we're complete adore birds lol -he asks and talks about me with ppl i know (not like gossiping and stuff) -he pays cloooosseee attention when i'm telling him about a problem -he offered to punch this guy who was acting like a jerk to me -he offered me his jacket -he offered me money at lunch to buy stuff even though i had money -he once said "i'll sob if you sob" so does he like me or is he just being really really friendly?? ps i've known him for a year and i think he would be a perfect bf

3 Sep 2010, 4:55 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: I'm not a normal teenager?

I am now 15 and I have been kissed or had a proper boyfriend in my life. I guess something is wrong with me. I attended middle school as a confident person, boys talked to me. I felt glad about what I looked like and who I was. But my best pal at that time, grew jealous and decided it would be fun to ruin my life. I let her and I regret it. I then started thinking suicide thoughts, spent hours crying non cease. I felt alone at school and fought a lot with my family. I then spent the next year, getting my grades up, as they had fallen since I was bullied. I ended up top of the class and encountered straight A's. My parents then said I could move to a private school. I did and I adore it. I am meeting new friends and I feel a lot of happier. I have been there for eight months now. The thing is, my confidence of how I look, is terrible. I feel fat. (5,6 and weigh 115 pounds) There are a lot of perfect girls at my school. I feel ugly sometimes too. I used to think and feel pretty but its every gone. Also the thing is boys don't like me. I mean, I will talk to them when I have too, but I have no guy friends. It sucks. I can't find a boyfriend. I like this one guy, I actually got to know him, but then he asked my pal out and she said yes. I cried that night, but I am over it now. It feels like everyone I know has or had a boyfriend in their life. Its embarrassing for me. I honestly don't know why. I guess its because I live forty minutes away from town and I am pretty silent. Also a formal is coming up soon and I am getting every dressed up, but I don't have a date! You don't have too, but I want one. Its annoying because every my new friends are finding dates but not me. :( I feel unhappy. Also I started cutting myself recently and I can't cease. I do it on my ankles and my upper thigh. I receive really mad sometimes because my life sucks.

3 Sep 2010, 4:45 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: israel and half the palestinians are going to keep up the peace talks and meet regularly to?

talk about peace and set dates for more meetings ad infinitum..to talk about peace. MY question is : what about the other half of the palestinians, ie those in the gaza ztrip" ruled" by huumuuss? hummuss does not want peace it wants war and the eradication of israel... so why the farce? and middle east peace whilst iran is threatening genocide...it does just not make sense to me...

3 Sep 2010, 4:38 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: how do you get to know people when most of the time people are probably not being themselves trying to impress?

....trying to impress others. i'm 21 years old now, and have been an outcast for most of my life...since i was about 9. since i didn't really have any friends...i did a lot of observing, and it became so obvious to me how fake people are trying to impress others. ...now i'm sure that people my age are more then likely to have grown up since then and more mature and being more themselves... but i still find it difficult to trust people, like for example, look at club scenes....... i think that is THE worst place to meet people... everyone is putting on an act from the moment they even think about going to a club until they receive home.. from how they dress, to who they pick to hang out with... i still don't have many friends, mainly due to not trusting people....... but i'm trying to change that. am i being overly paranoid about this?? do you think most of what i'm thinking/feeling is carried on from the childhood or do you legitimately agree with me on that most people arent themselves?

3 Sep 2010, 4:38 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Sag guy ignored my text after we made plans to meet up?

What the hell? I am fed up of this - made plans to meet up, and he ignored my text and don't say oh he hasn't got credit to message back because I know he does! What shall I do about it? Just leave him? And why did he do this for? I am so mad right now. I'm a Pisces

3 Sep 2010, 4:35 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Having problems making new friends!?

So, school has just started 2 days ago, and I am having big problems making new friends! I must say that this couldn't possibly have anything to do with looks (there are superficial ppl out there) , I am considered handsome by most girls, I am 6'1'' ...and I am one of the smartest people in my grade. And that's where the problem comes in...I have been taking Advanced Placement courses from the beginning of HS, and while there were quite a few people in the grade 10 level of these classes, now there are only about 10 people(mostly the same people) in my classes and NO girls! Indeed, these guys are my friends but the problem is that they never wanna hang out , play some sports, go to the gym or anything like that...they only wanna study/do homework...study again. I can't live like this...! + I moved to this city at the end of grade 9 ( I am starting grade 11 now) so I haven't gotten to meet a whole lot of people. I tried joining sport teams and clubs already but the problem is that everyone already has their possess group of friends and nobody cares about the "new guy, with no chilly friends" I don't wanna arrive off as a "wanna be", I just want some friends I can hang out with from time to time , someone to go out with and have fun! Any ideas or advice would be greatly appreciated!

3 Sep 2010, 4:33 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: what are some places where teens can volunteer?

im 17 years old and wanted to find a place to do volunteer work, where i could meet other people and help people what are some you alls sugestions

3 Sep 2010, 4:28 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Help with this please 10pts?

Before: "Mike" was your bestfriend of 2 years (you both liked e/o). every of the sudden he started changing (he'll rarely txt/call you). Then you asked him wassup with that? he said "I'll explain later in person please be patient". This went on for a year of rarely talking to e/o. Next thing you know you meet a new guy "Tim" and you start dating him. You never told mike about tim. Soon you got sick of it every and just told mike "sorry i just look us as friends only". Mike got unhappy but he kept it moving. One year later: Mike calls you from mexico & finally confessed to you what's going on and tells you his secret that now he's a millionaire and he's been really busy getting wealthy which was true he showed a bank statement it read 6 million dollars. He also said "You're the 1st to know of my secret & the 2nd girl to know will be his future wife". Then you told mike about your feelings towards him again & he then told you "Let's just be friends please". Now you look mike driving a ferrari & he just bought a million dollar condo w/ beach views. He's even about to open a restaurant!. every mike talks about is women, just different women he meets every the time!. How would you feel? were every just 21

3 Sep 2010, 4:26 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Why is the newcomer the most important person in the room at an AA meeting?

3 Sep 2010, 4:23 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Why haven't I had a boyfriend since feburary? 10 points?

Ok so I'm a freshman. It's not like I'm ugly, I'm 5'5, I have brown/black with caramel tones hair, I am pretty pale with weird 3 colored eyes, brown on the inside green in the middle and blue on the edge, they every kinda blend together. I ear a b cup, so i'm a tad on the tiny side, i dress pretty laid back, flannels graphic t's, skinny jeans and converse. I broke up with my last bf, of 7 months, in february back at our ultra tiny middle school. Now that i'm at high school, i stay with my group of people i knew in m.s. So i haven't really gotten the chance to meet more people, everyone stays in there groups! I like one of my best guy friends, but even when i'm obviously flirting with him and he flirts back. Like he playfully teases me by calling me "look through shirt girl" Because i wore a look through tank top a couple times. Still nothing. What's wrong with me?

3 Sep 2010, 4:22 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Ex refuse to answer my ques and lied abt his schedule. y?

I still adore my ex alot.. He's my first relationship and i fell for him deeply.. He too adore me alot more than i do when we were in rlship.. But our relationship is getiing complicated nw..To make it more confusing, he wouldn't answer my ques.. I asked him so many times if he still loves me.. but whenever i ask him that he'll tell me to move on and to leave him alone.. I tried to let go but i kept coming back.. So recently, i met him in the afternoon to hangout as friends.. We chatted like we normally do.. I ask him what he'll be doing later and he told me he'll be meeting his pal for a drink and going to work later on at 7. I bid him goodbye aft that and went for my other appointment. Later on when i check my fb.. I saw his wallpost saying he is with a girl @ a park posted ard 8pm.. Its the same exact place we often use to hangout at .. Why he lied to me? Why he chose this place and why he post abt it on fb? Did he purposely do it to make me forget him?

3 Sep 2010, 4:21 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Can i get some opinions on this situation?

I have known this guy for about 2 months now and he asks me to meet him places a lot . We stay up tardy talking to each other and whenever he sees me he hugs me . Yesterday we had a conversation on facebook , here is most of it : pal-LMAO , have fun ;) Me-Hahaah , thank you&&i swear there is NO bait in there :/ pal- damn .. thats suckkkkks! Him- hey thats mean! Me-Lmfaoo , only bait i know is you ♥ Him- woohooo.♥ Me-‎" yeah up in haya now " hahaah , you got that stuck in my head . ! Him-hahaha i bett. i miss you! Me- I miss you too ( : likeee , you should call me&&i might go tomorrow . Him- i caaan't. north carolina in the moringn. :/ Me- You're leaving me down here :/ Him- yess. :/ im sorry adore! Me- Lol you're goinn' be sorry when you receive baack ( : Him- haha. & why is that? Me- Cause you're leaving me " we took vows Rasputia " ( : Him- CTFUUUUU'! Rasputia.. hahahah. and im sowwie, sick be back sunday! We also had a wall conversation talking about how we are married now . -What is your say on this ?

3 Sep 2010, 4:20 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Is there anyway this could work?

I got talking to this awesome guy in the summer, on msn. but now he's started back to school, 3 weeks before me. We were talking for 3 months and now the beginning of the 4th we've just separated. we can only talk every second weekend, but even then it's not for long, either im busy at the weekend or he is. he's meeting new people at this school, (it was new to him) and im glad for him, he's really enjoying it, so im glad. i really like this guy, he knows exactly how i feel, and we talk about every of it, everything, but today when we spoke, afer 2 weeks, it felt like things had changed. there were loads of long pauses, and we didn't really know what to say to each other, it was horrible. i would adore to meet up with him, but he lives too far away, so maybe in a couple of years we'll meet up. i go back next week, and i know im going to be really busy with my a levels so again we won't talk as much. we text quite a bit, during the week but it's not the same. i know what i should do, i know i need to let him go, but it's gunna be difficult. i never thought i could receive so attached to someone ive never even met. i really want to carry on talking to him, and receive back to how it used to be. im not sure how he feels about me, he tells me im something special, and that he loves me and is always saying he missed me or is missing me and as i said he knows exactly how i feel about him but because we've never met i feel like im being pushed down to the bottom of his pile, i don't expect him to put me first, not at every, that wouldn't be fair. i cant talk to anyone about this, so i would really appreciate some advice, is there anyway this relationship/friendship' with this guy could work? thanks.

3 Sep 2010, 4:19 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: help I need some advice!?

Okay so I want to start hanging out with my freinds again. I didn't hang out with them in the past years bcuz I didn't have an off campus passfor lunch and they would always go off campus so I couldn't go with them. And this year, I started hanging out with my freind and shes a sophomore and I'm a senior and i would really like to like it with my senior freinds. Anyways one day I hung outwith my senior freinds and at the end of lunch I asked them where they met and they told me. Then the next day I went to meet them and they weren't there. Then on Monday I saw them and wentwith them and we went off campus. Then the next day I couldn't find them. And then I saw my freind's freind trying to receive her off campus pass out of her locker and the relax of my freinds werewaiting for her. Then I tried to followherto hang out with them but they left b4 I could catch up to them. I'm not sure if they saw me or not but I did receive upset I'll admit. I went to the bathroom and cried in the stall bcuz I felt ditched. So then I went to hang with other freinds. And I have been for the past week. Idk if they don't like me or if they arent used to waiting for me bcuz I didn't hang out with them at the beginning of the skool year. Anyways they talk to me and say hi to me and they danced with me at a skool dance. I don't know wut to do bcuz I really want to hang out with them.

3 Sep 2010, 4:19 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Boy talks to me loads on internet, but blanks me at school?

Okay well theres this boy, and hes proper sweet. He goes to my school and recently got to know him more over MSN/Facebook. He said to me that he really likes me and that we should meet up sometime. But, we went back to school yesterday, i smiled at him and he blanked me. I also said hi to him, but every he did was grin. Is he shy?? how do i receive to talk to him more or receive him to talk to me face to face?

3 Sep 2010, 4:18 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Whats it mean when a guy says this? Answers appreciated:)?

Please read this:) So this guy i like, i texted him about something and he just started his first year of college. We have known each other about 2 months, but anyways he texts me "I miss you and like 2 other people" I don't know who the two other people are but idk but gut feeling is telling me its not other two people that he could be interested it. I mean his family is a big part of his life and is important to him, i truly feel it could be them. anyways, What does this mean? Do you think he likes me? We have only hung out twice and on those two times he has hugged me and said i looked and smelled nice. But i texted him back i missed him too. He didn't text back after i said that, i mean he has been busy so, but yea. Well a few days ago i didn't text him at every and today he texted me. Idk if that means anything. But yeah he also has told me something he said he hasn't told anyone else, because he said it was a very touchy subject to him. He has also said he has wanted to meet my parents and that he maybe wants me to meet his sometime. And really i like this guy a lot i just don't wanna tell him i like him bc in the past i have told guys and it has ended usually bad for me so i just wanna receive feel if he likes me or not.

3 Sep 2010, 4:16 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Linux ubuntu will not boot?

Here is the information you guys could probably need. I have two difficult drives (It's an older computer) one is for windows XP (b/c it doesn't meet requirements for 7) I have windows XP's config.ini for the boot.. The order from left to right Windows XP PRO Mac OS X Ubuntu OS X and Ubuntu are on the same difficult steer. So soon as I turn my computer on I receive the options. I was going to ubuntu and then it would show the operating systems again and I would chose the first one for ubuntu 10.4 lucid. Instead, I am getting some GNU GRUB where you can type commands. What is the command to load the kernel for Ubuntu 10.4? How do I fix this? Thanks ahead of time. EDIT: Please help me out here.. I had silent a bit of stuff below linux.. I got used to not having to worry about any virus or adware or spyware. This is a DELL by the way.

3 Sep 2010, 4:15 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Could some guys answer this question please?

okay well basically this boy liked me, i barely knew him but thought it was a chance to meet someone new. We got talking and then we texted alot. After a while we stopped texting and he seemed to be talking to this other girl alot. Now about a 3 weeks later he texts me, and i do not answer. An then another week later he was waiting after school and so was i. He was talking to a 'popular' group of girls and soon came over to me for about 20 minutes of talking. He is really nice, and that was the first time i saw him in person. He seemed a little bit nervous but kept having strong eye contact. Do you think he fancies me, or just generally wants to be friends? And if he does like me why did he suddenly cease texting when he talked to the other girl? Is he messing me about?

3 Sep 2010, 4:13 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Does she like me? We are close friends but is it anything more?

I’ve been friends with this girl for a couple of years now and we are really close friends. I don’t know if it’s anymore. We always flirt a lot and i’m sat close her in every lesson and when were not at school we’ve been keeping in contact almost everyday. I walked her home once and we were holding hands and had are arms round each other after a tardy night, and as soon as I hinted that I liked her she rested her head upon my shoulder and i thought it was a sign she liked me. We went walking once just me and her and she kept bumping into and trying to touch me on purpose being playful. She and her friends have talked about me before as it was pretty obvious, they went out of the room and came back in five minutes later because we had both been fooling around that night. Then on the other hand she sometimes she will forget to call me back or she will talk about people she thinks are fit but whether that’s just to make me feel jealous. Then she says something like she would rather go out with someone she can talk to and have a lot in common, which is what we have. When I was going out with someone she was always interested in where we were in the relationship- how far we got. My pal says that she likes me and whenever I go to this place she wants to go at the same time and meet me there. Any advice that is important to her her she will always arrive to me. She has given me little signs but I’m not sure. Should i tell her as well? but it could ruin are friendship? Thanx for any help given :)

3 Sep 2010, 4:13 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Meeting a guy in real life after talking on a student website...?

Hi guys :) I'm going to be meeting this guy on Monday. I added him on this student website because he is doing the same course as me and we've been chatting every night since. He's really nice and since we both have meetings up at the university he thought we should meet up afterwards and have a walk around campus and receive a coffee. I agreed to this because he'll be in my classes so chances are i'll meet him anyway. i'm just worried he won't like the way i look. he's seen a picture of me (just head and shoulders) but i'm a bit overweight and i'm scared he'll be put off. i don't know if i have romantic feelings or whatever but i still want him to find me attractive. another problem is the age difference... he's 25 and i'm 17. i'm sure he only wants to be friends so do you think i should just go for it? it'll be early in the afternoon. thanks xxx

3 Sep 2010, 4:12 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Question about this guy?

So there's this guy I nice of, you know, have a crush on. He's always staring at me in class and texting me and wanting to meet up with me or hang out with me, so I figured he liked me too. But then, one day we were talking, and he asked if I wanted a boyfriend, and I got every excited and whatnot because I thought he was gonna ask me to be his girlfriend, so I said it depends on who the guy is. Then, he says, "Unless something weird happens, I don't really want a girlfriend." ? But he still seems like he likes me. What do I do? Do I do nothing at every? Do I wait it out? Do I confront him? Sigh.

3 Sep 2010, 4:09 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Why won't she let me meet her dad?

She asked me if i would be mad if she waited til she was 18 to tell her dad about me. I told her no but thing i don't receive is why she won't let me meet her dad. We have been together exactly 1 year and 17 days. She doesn't want to loose me,i understand that. I trust her completly theres nothing i wouldnt do for her. So im sitting down talking with her and she keeps saying she doesnt want to loose me. Eventually she says "well my dad wants me to be with a white guy". Im asking everyone This question why wont she let me meet her Dad?Why?

3 Sep 2010, 4:08 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: DOES PENIS SIZE ACTUALLY MATTER;GIRLS?

i mean, if a girl closed her eyes and had sex with somone 6 inches and somone 7.5 would she feel the difference girls what penis size did u find most satesfying, i have a 6.7/7 inch long penis and 5.5 inch girth, 1.7 inch wide roughly, i am 16, however this penis to me looks tiny, i am a tiny person( height build etc) and the penis kinda suits me but on anyone bigger it would look very tiny, porn dicks look huge compared to mine, my hands are tiny and fit easily around my penis and my penis is ony like 1 handfull every round it looks tiny, i have seen a website called little dick, and every the penis's on ther are my size flacid, and some are my size erect i thort roughly 7 inches was big, will my penis satesfy every girl i meet?

3 Sep 2010, 4:08 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Recovering from Anorexia...I Feel So Alone Right Now?

I'm 19 years old and have had anorexia since I was about 13. I've been to an inpatient treatment middle once, when I was 17, and got up to around 95lbs at 5'4 (my highest weight--I've always been very slim). I maintained that weight for awhile, and I felt much healthier. But this past year has been very stressful for me, with my parent's separation, living situations, etc as well as my OCD/anxiety. Right now, I'm about 82-84lbs (it varies depending on the scale, time of day, etc). I did not lose weight intentionally, I guess I just wasn't eating enough. So now I am only a few lbs more than when I was admitted inpatient last time, only now that I'm 19, I can't be forced to go. I saw a nutritionist about a week ago, and she gave me a meal plan (started me on 1800calories, and I've been adding 250 every 3 days. RIght now, I'm eating about 2450 calories, and it's so difficult...I feel absolutely terrible about myself. Part of me wants to gain weight, because I know I'm not healthy and I want my periods back, but then I'll look at myself in the mirror and think I look fine and I'm already too fat. I know logically, that I am not fat, so I don't understand why I can't look how thin the scale says I am. To make things even harder, I've been having terrible stomach pains/bloating, which makes it even harder to eat, but so far, I have been meeting every my calorie goals. I would adore to receive back up to around 95lbs, but I am terrified of what I will look like and not being able to cease gaining. Sometimes I question whether or not I really even need to gain weight. I have nobody to talk to (no friends, no therapist, and my mom is having some of her possess issues right now with alchohol), and I just feel so alone. Am I doing the right thing by eating more and trying to gain? I could just really use some support/advice right now from someone who knows where I'm coming from, Thanks so much

3 Sep 2010, 4:07 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: My friend and I recently developed shin splints and we have to run cross country every day. What do we do?

My pal Desiree and I run cross country for our school. We are both in 9th grade and good runners for our age. We both have recently developed shin splints and they KILL. I like to run and I don't know what to do. We have practice every day and we are supposed to run about 20-30 miles in a week. I have a meet tomorrow and I don't know if I should go or not. They hurt when I touch them now and I am in a lot of pain. I know Desiree isn't going tomorrow . What should we do. Any advice?

3 Sep 2010, 4:06 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Do you think he really likes me?

I've been talking to this guy for a little over a week now. Our first date is tomorrow night (he's going to meet up with me and some of my friends). Well last night he says to me random question but will you be my date to my cousin's wedding on October 16th. I said sure that would be fun. What should I take from that since it's almost two months away? Does this mean he thinks things will go well between us? Was I wrong to say sure? I'm trying to take things slow and I want to build something long term.

3 Sep 2010, 4:06 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: For the Air-Force or Army ROTC, apart from taking the ROTC elective courses at the college you're attending...?

Is there anything you have to do in the ROTC in addition to taking the elective courses at your college? For example, will you have to go to Basic Training, meet up like you would if you were in the Reserve, or be sent to a base, or is taking the classes at college every there is to it? *Also, would you be subject to being deployed/drafted if you join the Air-Force or Army ROTC, or are you still considered a civilian?

3 Sep 2010, 4:04 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Older boyfriend and meeting his son?

Hi there I have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for 8 months now and he is truly the adore of my life. He happens to be quite a bit older than I am though , I'm 26 he is 42 we met through mutual friends and every of my family and his family approve of us being together. Thing is his son is 20 and he does not live with him but visits occasionally and tonight he is coming over so my boyfriend called me and told me to not arrive over straight from work because his son is stopping by for about an hour. I have met everyone else in his family except for his son and based on some settlecomments he made his son does not approve of us dating at every and i got the impression that his son was pissed off at his dad about this. Should i take offense to this that he does not want me to arrive over because his son will be there? Also should i be nervous since now I feel like they are discussing my situation with his dad? I just need some advice on how to handle this situation i am feeling a little hurt by everything. Also should i address to my boyfriend why he has not let me meet his son yet?

3 Sep 2010, 4:02 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Is my friend gay and is he into me (I really really like him)? Please help....?

There's this one guy (my age, 17, and a really good pal) whom I 'm basically in adore with! He's been doing nice've "gay" things toward others, especially myself. He will often do things at swim practice like slap my a** in a joking manner when we're in our speedos (sidenote: he's very fit and good-looking, and if he is gay, I'm probably a guy that he'd be really interested in as I'm very toned, tall, blonde hair/blue eyes, and very tan). He'll even do this in front of others as a joke. I know there are some straight guys that slap guy friends on the a**, but: HE says things to me like, "I want (you) to f**k (me) you so difficult" and, "I want your c**k in my mouth." It seems that he says these things in a joking manner, but sometimes I wonder if it's more than just a joke. He occasionally tries to show me his d**k (more often his ba**s). He also calls me gay at times, but it seems moreso in a friendly way. As of tardy, he's been very touchy during practice (including earlier today), grabbing onto my feet and pulling me back, and I'd often reciprocate it. He seems to be having a lot of fun, laughing and every. When we went to the beach together a few weeks ago, we often playfully wrestled on the bed and slap/lightly punch each other jokingly when we kill each other in this video game. He would put his arm around me and even lean his head on my shoulder in the car sometimes. He sometimes tells me he loves me and just laughs. He gave me a short lap dance in just his speedo at this big swim meet a month ago. I want to receive with him soooo bad!!! What should I do???

3 Sep 2010, 4:01 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Need help on topic for 20 page Economics essay.?

Hello, I'm a freshman in community college taking an honors economics class. I just recently added that class and the teacher said that the requirement for honors is writing a 20 page essay on economics. Now he said that my topic can be anything but it needs to have substance. I'm going to meet with him on tuesday to discuss my topic. Can anyone shoot me some topics or some advice on economic issues that are capable of being a 20 page report. Thanks for your time, cheers! It is a research report I believe.

3 Sep 2010, 4:00 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: What is happening with my life?

Came out of a long term relationship last June. Since then I can't receive together with a guy - I'm not talking about guys not liking me - they do - just that things seem to happen that prevent me from getting together with a guy. Like a guy will pop round unexpectedly to meet up and I'll have gone out. Or a guy will plan to look me and then his friends (or mine) will turn up preventing that - it has happened to me quite a few times. Has this ever happened to anyone else - for how long & what was the outcome?

3 Sep 2010, 3:59 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Am I over reacting or is this totally rude?

I have been seeing a guy for about 4 months. Last Friday was his birthday. He asked me to hook him up with some smoke for his brother who was going to be in town. He asked that I receive it to him by Sunday because that was when his brother was leaving. He did not ask me to hangout with him on his Birthday which I was at the beginning understanding of because he was celebrating with family. Any way I went out of my way to receive the stuff for him (had to steer to receive it ect...) and then when I try to hook up with him to give it to him (where I had to go to receive it is close to where he lives and far from my possess home) I texted him a head of time saying this is when I will be going to receive it so can I just drop it by. This was a good 3 hours before I was going to do it. He doesn't respond till like 4 hours after I receive it and asks if we can meet the next day instead. I said sure, I have to be back in your area this time etc.... He doesn't respond. I don't hear ANYTHING from him till today and he is every "how ya been? Is there a good time to receive that from you?" I am thinking of just not responding. Am I wrong to feel blown off? Am I wrong to feel like it was rude for him to let me waste my time trying to do him a favor instead of letting me know he didn't in fact need it then so I didn't need to worry about it? Plus the time it took him to even receive back to me...... thoughts? I'll answer yours! Thanks guys! I thought I was right but just needed some validation!

3 Sep 2010, 3:58 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: I don't understand why we can't be friends?

okay to start, I'm 14 and I'm from Syria and my best pal Hannah is jewish...and i'm muslim..no big deal lol but okay so we've been friends for about 3 years and we've been over to each others houses alot and my mom likes hannah and stuff but recently i went over to her home and her mom offered us some lunch and i told her i can't eat because i'm fasting for ramadan...and her mom gave me this suprised looked like she never knew i was muslim because religion between us never was brought up really and i could tell her mom was a little bit uneasy afterwards but whatever so a few days later i meet up with hannah and she tells me that we can't go over to her home anymore and gave me a weak excuse and i asked her if i offended her mom in some way or something and she kept brushing it off but i kept persisting to ask her and then she finally told me the reason was because her mom doesn't like my religion, when i heard that i was hurt because i didn't think it was such a big deal and every but i never showed hannah i was upset and just recently i've been noticing hannah doesn't really call me to hang and stuff and i'm worried...i haven't told my mom about this because she would make a big spectacle out of it and argue with hannahs mom....i adore my pal, we have much in common but this whole religion thing is annoying me alot...any ideas about what i should do? My mom knows about hannahs faith because i bought her a gift for hanukkah last December and my mom doesn't mind it but if she comes to know about what happened recently she'll be very upset...well my religion doesn't condone violence and killing its name...its actually a sin and its "followers" are idiotic extremists that give it a bad rep.

3 Sep 2010, 3:57 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: I really need some advice/:?

Okay I know this is going to be long so I want to apologize. Anyway so I meet this kid through friends & at first we were getting along really good & hung out a few times..then every the sudden we stoped talking? and I can honestly say that idk y? I guess it could be for a number of reasons..maybe he found some other girl he liked I really don't know..every though I really just wanted to be friends with him, and we never talked about dating or anything like that. But now that we don't talk anymore I think I may have feelings for him? is that weird? but idk cause I think that he hates me :( but you look I started talking to this other kid recently & I really don't know what to do because of the feelings I have for the other kid..And this new kid is nice & every but I only hung out with him once & he was talking about a possible relationship already? like it just seems too soon. & not to mention when I fist meet him every he talked about was "doing shitt" if you know what I mean & this was before we even hung out..I just don't want to receive used and this kid does have a reputation. But I think his relationship talk was only a cover for the fact that every he wants is...well you know. Like the one night I was going to have him arrive over my pal was there & he txted her saying " you should totally hook me up" and the other time we were gonna chill my pal was over & he asked if we could go in another room alone for like 20min & I didn't even know him I had only seen him once & said hello he got my number off my pal. Like idk I'm not sure if its just that I am not allowing myself to like this new kid because of this other guy or that this new kid just wants to use me...but I ignored him for a while like not answering his texts and things but he never stoped trying to talk to me. like I'm soo confused.. & this other guy I have dreams about him almost every night like its crazy! advice please?

3 Sep 2010, 3:54 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Need help about butlins skegness?

Hi does anyone know if George has started to do a photo shoot at skeggy because I have been told he is then that he isnt and its confusing also would it cost if so how much also people meet him when he arrives in his car were abouts does his carr cease please

3 Sep 2010, 3:53 pm | click here to view more

Open Question: Older boyfriend doesn't want me to meet son?

Hi there I have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for 8 months now and he is truly the adore of my life. He happens to be quite a bit older than I am though , I'm 26 he is 42 we met through mutual friends and every of my family and his family approve of us being together. Thing is his son is 20 and he does not live with him but visits occasionally and tonight he is coming over so my boyfriend called me and told me to not arrive over straight from work because his son is stopping by for about an hour. I have met everyone else in his family except for his son and based on some settlecomments he made his son does not approve of us dating at every and i got the impression that his son was pissed off at his dad about this. Should i take offense to this that he does not want me to arrive over because his son will be there? Also should i be nervous since now I feel like they are discussing my situation with his dad? I just need some advice on how to handle this situation i am feeling a little hurt by everything. Also should i address to my boyfriend why he has not let me meet his son yet?

3 Sep 2010, 3:52 pm | click here to view more